Coconut Shrimp without mint seafood

14 ounces unsweetened light coconut milk , divided 1 jalapeno pepper, seeded and chopped 1/4 cup minced fresh cilantro 1 1/4 lbs uncooked medium shrimp ,[...]

10 shrimp 1/2 cup breadcrumbs 1/2 cup flour 1/2 cup coconut flakes 1 egg (beaten) 2 teaspoons olive oil 1 head romaine lettuce 1/2 cup goat cheese 2 teaspoons[...]

1 1/2 lbs jumbo shrimp , peeled, deveined, tails left intact 1/3 cup cornstarch 3/4 teaspoon salt 1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper 2 cups sweetened flaked coconut[...]