Maryland Crab without cilantro bay

2 tablespoons finely chopped onions 3 tablespoons butter 2 cups crabmeat (2 6-oz cans) 1/2 teaspoon salt 1/4-1/2 teaspoon ground black pepper 3 cups milk 1/2[...]

1 lb well picked crabmeat 3 eggs , beaten 1 tablespoon chopped fresh parsley 5 tablespoons butter , melted, divided 1 teaspoon salt 1 dash pepper 1/2 teaspoon[...]

1 (8 ounce) package light cream cheese , at room temperature 1/2 cup firmly packed sour cream (can use light) 2 tablespoons relish sandwich spread[...]