Miscellaneous with coconut

3 tablespoons peanut oil 1 onion , chopped 2 tablespoons fresh minced garlic (or to taste) 1 -2 teaspoon dried chili pepper flakes (optional or to taste) 4[...]

1 lb firm tofu , drained 1 1/2 cups water , to cook tofu 1/2 cup light miso 3 tablespoons white wine vinegar 2 teaspoons salt 2 -3 medium eggplants , peeled[...]

Sauce: 1/2 cup unsalted butter, cut into tablespoons 3 tablespoons minced shallots 1 cup white wine Juice and zest from 1 lemon 3 Roma tomatoes , diced 1/2[...]