Mashed Potatoes with Ham with nutmeg

4 potatoes , red works best 4 carrots , peeled and chopped 1/4 cup onion , diced and sauted 1/4 cup milk , warmed 1/4 cup butter , softened 1/4 cup cream[...]

6 -8 cups water 1 -2 teaspoon salt 2 1/2-3 lbs baking potatoes , peeled and cut into large cubes 4 ounces butter , melted 1 medium onion , sliced (optional) 2[...]