Pina Colada Cake

1/2 c. dark rum 1 pkg. (4 serving) Jello coconut cream flavor or possibly vanilla flavor instant pudding and pie filling 1 pkg. (2 layer size) white cake mix[...]

1/3 c. dark rum (80 proof) 1 pkg. (2 layer size) white cake mix 1/2 c. water 1 c. flaked coconut 1 pkg. (4 serving size) Jello coconut cream flavor instant[...]

1 x baked yellow cake in a 9 x 13 inch pan, from scratch or possibly a mix 1 x 14 oz can sweetened condensed lowfat milk 1 x 15 oz can cream of coconut (drain[...]